Friday, February 7, 2014

Keeping It Real

Honesty, it's something we say that we all want in another person. It's something we can't even give to ourselves all of the time. When is it that people are honest with others and why? Only when under oath? When swearing to a higher authority? When we believe that to lie is to bring the wrath of said higher authority upon ourselves? Even the most egregious criminals and murderous people in the world will tell the truth. When it suits their purposes, that is.

There is only one person, or type of person, and one moment in which I can think of that you will find a person who is completely honest with you. That moment is when someone has entered into your space with full intent to do you harm. The moment when you know that there is a fight and there is no way out. Your skin prickles as all your hair stands up, your pulse changes, your breathing changes, everything changes. You are so in the moment and your opponent is so in the moment.

Just before the fight begins you both know more about yourselves and each other than either of you could have ever shared otherwise. You both are cosmically aware not just what you are capable of, but what you are willing to do.

The man, that woman, whoever that person is standing in front of you, squaring off with you has laid bare his entire self and full intent and in no uncertain terms. That person has done so in such a way that no one has ever opened up to you before.

The person who is in a fight against you is the most honest person you will ever meet.

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